29 September 2010

Organization Station

Did you know that I'm a crafter? I am also very spoiled. This was my birthday gift this year. I was hoping to have it all cleaned up for a picture, but then I decided to just leave as it is. It looks messy, but actually, it's pretty organized. I've been working hard to get it set up. Now, I can work on my crafting projects with all of my tools close at hand. Everything has it's place and is within reach. I love it!

27 September 2010

A visit from Matt Meyer

We got a visit from Scott's cousin Matt! He was in town for a business convention and was able to extend his stay a little to spend time with us! The kids were all over him! I think some of his shirts may be stretched out a little from the kids hanging on him and tackling him so much. They had a ball! Thanks for the visit Matt! It was great to see you :)


25 September 2010

This I Believe...

I was asked to speak at church for a "This I believe" service. I'm not much of a public speaker, but I accepted the challenge. I was given plenty of time to come up with what I wanted to talk about and write my speech. I thought about it all summer, but the following is what I ended up with. I must mention that Scott helped so much! He helped me to articulate the thoughts that were a little jumbled in my head. Thanks sweetie!

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I believe in Star Trek’s United Federation of Planets. It’s a vision of the future where race, gender, number of limbs, and birth world are unimportant compared to the principles of peace, acceptance, and inter-planetary community. It’s also a well known example of a group displaying respect for the inherent worth and dignity of every person. But why is it that our planet appears to be taking such timid and excruciatingly slow steps towards this future?

In the same turbulent decade in which Gene Roddenberry hatched the Start Trek vision, John Fitzgerald Kennedy famously declared, “We have nothing to fear but fear it self”. Yet in almost 50 years, it seems like fear is growing stronger than ever. We’ve created a whole culture of fear. News outlets are constantly in a panic about the latest anecdotal threats to our health and safety. Soon parents will again be bombarded with Halloween candy warnings (never mind that there’s never been a recorded case of true candy tampering that was not tracked back to their own parents). Many of our religious communities seem to grow and thrive on a message of fear.

This is not new. Human fear of the unknown or the “other” is natural and was probably useful in helping us to evolve. But if we’re ever going to unite as a planet in order to join the Star Trek Federation, we are going to have to move beyond fear. We must consciously decide to embrace and learn about the “other” before our natural fear can melt away atop the pillars of common ground and shared experience. Easy? No. Necessary? Yes.

This kind of global understanding can’t be rushed or forced upon people. It has to happen slowly, almost imperceptibly when viewed in the time scale of one human life. My optimistic side compels me to believe this is already happening today. The Internet and technology is making our world smaller. Though it may seem a horribly messy process online, at least a global dialogue has begun. Online communities are slowly taking hold in certain corners that encourage meaningful exchanges of ideas and frowns upon those persons intent on increasing the fear level in our society.

These are grand ideas, but our day to day lives present much more humble opportunities to show courage in the face of our fears. Sometimes small kindnesses like a smile at a stranger or a note to a friend in need are what is needed to continue to break down the culture of fear.

When discussing this essay with Scott, we remembered how scary it was for us to come to Wildflower Church for the first time. In 2002, the Belief-O-Matic quiz had told us that we belonged in the UU community. However, it was scary for both us to make that declaration to our families that we wanted something different then the Catholic Tradition we were both raised in.

It wasn’t until considering our children’s religious education that we found the courage to take this step. It’s amazing how we have so much more courage to do things we believe are good for our children than for ourselves alone. So in the spirit of going “Boldly going where no man (OK, just us) had gone before” we loaded our minivan and came to Wildflower Church for the first time in May of 2009.

We were seeking a religious identity for our children (and a box for them to check). Quickly though, we fell in love with the UU ideal of learning about and respecting ALL of our world’s religious traditions. We’re excited (and a little jealous) that our children will be raised in this community and we are grateful for all your help in teaching them.

Our biggest surprise in this process has been how much Scott and I value our time here. Sunday morning is something we look forward to and the moments of reflection have enriched our lives in ways that we didn’t expect. Joining this community has been a wonderful reward for facing our fears.

Thank you for welcoming us into this beloved community.

23 September 2010

Back to Preschool

Some pictures of my cuties on their first day back to preschool. They were excited!




21 September 2010

Catching Up... August part 5

We finished August with my birthday. It was fun :) Madeline and I baked cupcakes (vegan) and actually we made the best frosting that I've ever had... it was chocolate frosting made with coconut butter and powdered sugar. YUM! Then Dennis and Marcia babysat while Scott and I went out to dinner (yes, we at dessert first). It was great!

19 September 2010

Catching Up... August part 4

Lily started KINDERGARTEN! Whoo hoo!

She LOVES it! School is awesome. She bounces out of bed every morning (we're now 3 weeks in) and comes home full of information every day. This kid loves structure and schedule and school is really making her happy.

This picture is from meet the teacher day (before school started).

Ready to go to the bus stop!
Her buddies that live on our street. Evan (black shirt) is even in her Kindergarten class.
The bus is here! Away she goes! I actually cried as the bus drove away. I couldn't help it. Then I ran back to my house and got in my van and drove up to the school. I had to see her again!
I found Lily sitting on the steps with her buddies Sierra and Gwenny.
Her teacher Ms. Mostyn greeting Lily on the first day of school.
Here's where she hangs her back pack.
The scene as I was leaving. Busy kids!

17 September 2010

Catching Up... August part 3

A visit to Corpus and the beach!

We spent our last weekend before school started and headed to Corpus Christi to visit Scott's sister Kristi and her family and also to go to the beach. We had a ball! The kids played hard and had a great time with their cousins. We all enjoyed the beach. Thanks Mike and Kristi!




15 September 2010

Catching Up... August part 2

Pedicure!

Just before Kindergarten, I took Lily to get her first pedicure. It was such a fun day for the both of us. She had little flowers painted on her toes :) Maybe we'll make it an annual tradition to mark the start of the school year.



13 September 2010

Catching Up... AUGUST

Hello blog! I've missed you. I've been away for too long and now I have a bunch of catching up to do... So here we go!

I haven't posted anything about our family adventures for all of AUGUST. I have been terrible about taking pictures this month, because I am so far behind... This post will catch us up a little and the next few posts too and then hopefully I can keep us from falling too far behind again...

August was quite a month! It started with Scott's birthday.

The kids and I made him a big cup cake birthday cake and we celebrated at home together.

Next... Soccer. Lily and Madeline are both learning how to play soccer. We've signed them up at Soccer Zone - an indoor (thank goodness!) facility. They are having a ball! They have class during the week and Lily is also in a league that plays games on the weekend. We are all enjoying it.




More on August to come...